Below the day finger (or arm)
There is two possible reasons for which it can't contact the date gear:
it's too low, as it happens when the date wheel jumper isn't engaged, or the C-clip not well pressed
is too far away, as if the finger tip is worn off, or the date gear is.
Your case appears to be the latter, the tips of some cogs are gone, making it appear to be off-center, so the problem can happen for some day but not others.
Look for a 2836 2561 on Cousins UK or other sources.