+1 mwilkes
For hole jewels I usually use tweezers and for preference I use Dumont 5a tweezers as I find the off-set gives me a little more manoeuvrability than the straight 5's or 4's. But for end stones and Incabloc springs I don't think that there is any thing to beat the jewel picker upper, at any price. I have not had a single flyer since getting mine last year.
It has also vastly improved the ease and speed with which balance pivots can be oiled.
I always used to start with the end stone upside down on the bench and the hole jewel next to it, also upside down. Place a drop of oil on the end stone, pick the hole jewel up and drop it onto the end stone, then turn the whole thing over, pick it up and install.
The number of times that the end stone has stuck to the tip of the oiler, or the hole jewel hasn't gone on straight, or the whole lot has launched into oblivion...
Now I install the hole jewel into the balance cock (or the main plate, which ever) dry, pick the end stone up with the picker upper by its top surface, apply oil to its lower surface safe in the knowledge that the surface tension of the oil cannot over come the grip, then position the end stone over the hole jewel and ease it off the picker upper with the tips of the 5a's. Complete doddle.