These stems are not held in very strongly - I bet you could get your nails in and pull it out, this may even be a little safer than the hand lifter because the case is made of 9ct gold and will be quite soft.
When putting the stem back in, go softly softly and with a turning action until you feel the bolt engage the stem, making sure the 3o'clock is exactly lined up with the pendant.
Hope this helps.
:)